[acb-hsp] What Successful People Do Before Breakfast
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Expert Perspective
What The Most Successful People Do Before Breakfast
BY Laura Vanderkam 06-12-2012 8:00 AM
This article is written by a member of our expert contributor
community.
Mornings are a great time for getting things done. You're less
likely to be interrupted than you are later in the day. Your
supply of willpower is fresh after a good night's sleep. That
makes it possible to turn personal priorities like exercise or
strategic thinking into reality. But if you've got big
goals--and a chaotic a.m. schedule--how can you make over your
mornings to make these goals happen?
Because I write about time management frequently, I've gotten
to see hundreds of calendars and schedules over the years. From
studying people's morning habits, I've learned that getting the
most out of this time is a five-part process. Follow these
steps, though, and you're on your way to building morning habits
that stick.
1. Track Your Time
Part of spending your time better is knowing how you're
spending it now. If you've ever tried to lose weight, you know
that nutritionists tell you to keep a food journal because it
keeps you from eating mindlessly. It's the same with time.
Write down what you're doing as often as you can. Use my
spreadsheet, a Word document, or a pad and pen.
While you measuring your mornings, try tracking your whole
week. The reason? The solution to morning dilemmas often lies at
other times of the day. You may be too tired because you're
staying up late. But if you look at how you're spending your
nights, you'll notice that youbre not doing anything urgent. The
Daily Show can be recorded and watched earlier--possibly while
you're on the treadmill at 6:30 a.m.
As for the mornings themselves, you can be organized but still
not be spending them well. Question your assumptions. You may
believe that "a man who wants to keep his job gets into the
office before his boss" because that's what your father did, but
your boss may be disappointed that he doesn't get the place to
himself for an hour first! If you decide that something is a top
priority, do it, but understand that we have to do few things in
life.
2. Picture the Perfect Morning
After you know how you're spending your time, ask yourself what
a great morning would look like. For me, it would start with a
run, followed by a hearty family breakfast. After getting people
out the door, I'd focus on long-term projects like my books.
Here are some other ideas for morning enrichment:
For personal growth:
Read through a religious text: Sacred texts can teach us about
human nature and history, even if they're not from a religion you
subscribe to. If they are, pray or meditate and get to know your
beliefs in a deeper way.
Train for something big: Aiming to complete a half-marathon, a
triathlon, or a long bike ride will keep you inspired as you take
your fitness to the next level.
Do art projects with your kids:. Mornings don't have to be a
death march out the door. Enjoy your time with your little ones
at a time of day when you all have more patience.
For professional growth:
Strategize: In an age of constant connectivity, people complain
of having no time to think. Use your mornings to picture what
you want your career and organization to look like in the future.
Read articles in professional journals: Benefit from other
people's research and strategic thinking, and gain new insights
into your field.
Take an online class: If a job or career change is in your
future, a self-paced class can keep your skills sharp.
3. Think Through the Logistics
How could this vision mesh with the life you have? Don't assume
you have to add it on top of the hours you already spend getting
ready or that you'll have to get to work earlier. If you fill
the morning hours with important activities you'll crowd out
things that are more time intensive than they need to be. Map
out a morning schedule. What time would you have to get up and
what time do you need to go to bed to get enough sleep? As for
the mornings themselves, what would make your ritual easier? Do
you need to set your easel next to your bed? Can you find a more
cheerful alarm clock or one you can't turn off so easily?
It's easy to believe our own excuses, particularly if they're
good ones. Come up with a plan and assemble what you need, but
whatever you do, don't label this vision as impossible
4. Build the Habit
This is the most important step. Turning a desire into a
ritual requires willpower. Use these fives steps to optimize
your routine:
Start slowly: Go to bed and wake up fifteen minutes earlier for
a few days until this new schedule seems doable.
Monitor your energy: Building a new habit takes effort, so take
care of yourself while you're trying. Eat right, eat enough, and
surround yourself with supportive people who want to see you
succeed.
Choose one new habit at a time to introduce: If you want to
run, pray, and write in a journal, choose one of these and make
it a habit before adding another.
Chart your progress: Habits take weeks to establish, so keep
track of how you're doing for at least thirty days. Once
skipping a session feels like you forgot something--like
forgetting to brush your teeth--you can take your ritual up a
notch.
Feel free to use bribery: Eventually habits produce their own
motivation, but until then, external motivations like promising
yourself concert tickets can keep you moving forward. And keep
in mind that your morning rituals shouldn't be of the
self-flagellation variety. Choose things you enjoy: your
before-breakfast ritual has the potential to become your favorite
part of the day.
5. Tune Up as Necessary
Life changes. Sometimes we have to regroup, but the goal is to
replace any rituals that no longer work with new ones that make
you feel like every day is full of possibility.
That is ultimately the amazing thing about mornings--they
always feel like a new chance to do things right. A win scored
then creates a cascade of success. The hopeful hours before most
people eat breakfast are too precious to be blown on
semiconscious activities. You can do a lot with those hours.
Whenever I'm tempted to say I don't have time for something, I
remind myself that if I wanted to get up early, I could. These
hours are available to all of us if we choose to use them.
So how would you like to use your mornings? This important
question requires careful thinking. But once you decide, small
rituals can accomplish great things. When you make over your
mornings, you can make over your life. That is what the most
successful people know.
Excerpted from What the Most Successful People Do Before
Breakfast
Laura Vanderkam by arrangement with Portfolio Penguin, a member
of Penguin Group (USA), Inc., Copyright B) 2012 by Laura
Vanderkam.
Copyright B) 2012 Mansueto Ventures LLC. All rights reserved.
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