[acb-hsp] When Bullies Go to Work

[J.Rayl]

That is very often what happens when people go to HR, or to Union--whomever is supposed to assist with these matters.  Unless one is fortunate--as did someone on this list --to work for a very strong and support HR or Union or whatever it may be called--as you so stated, crap runs downhill, and so sometimes, the situation becomes all the worse.  It did in my situation because HR was being bullied too--by the same wonderful director that I was.  I guess when one thinks about it, it makes sense--after all, if its the Director doing or allowing the bullying, well, HR isn't going to be of much help.  Or, if the bully is friends with whomever is supposed to be supporting you against the bully, its not going to help much either.  

Jessie Rayl
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  ----- Original Message ----- 
  From: Kevin LaRose 
  To: 'Discussion list for ACB human service professionals' 
  Sent: Tuesday, March 13, 2012 1:34 PM
  Subject: Re: [acb-hsp] When Bullies Go to Work


  I've always been hesitant to call what happened to me in the workplace bullying, because there was nothing really physical about it. I was a federal employee, and in the federal workplace, it's always seemed to me that, to clean up an often-used phrase, crap runs downhill. Fear and intimidation are seen by many as valid motivational tools, and that's true probably in any workplace. Nonetheless, I was subject to a lot of both in varying degrees of severity, and when I went to the union for assistance it got much worse. Sadly, the supervisor/employee dynamic lends itself very easily to bullying, particularly that of the psychological kind.
  KL


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